How many times have I said "if only I could see a
flashing neon sign!" I'd know I was
making the right decision.
Well this weekend we had a special stake conference and
one of the members of the presidency of the seventy was chosen to speak to us. He
chose to speak to us about pornography.
He shared that he was on an advisory council with the first presidency
that reviewed letters from women who had been victims of emotional, physical,
or sexual abuse stemming from pornography.
At one point President Hinckley said "stay away from this. It DESTROYS families". He talked about how pornography escalates and
ends in infidelity.
He has reviewed THOUSANDS of cases and in EVERY one the
abuser blamed it on the person they were abusing.
Nephi received divine confirmation to SEPARATE from his
brothers for the safety of his family.
I might have received divine confirmation to SEPARATE
from the abuser for my personal safety and the safety of my family. If I wish to participate in ordinances I MUST
forgive him. (It may take time).
He was very clear. Even though it seems unfair I must forgive
him. BUT that doesn't mean I must trust him.
TRUST MUST BE EARNED.
If there ever was a blinking neon light this was it. Every word out of his mouth, in the order it
came out was the story of my marriage and my thought processes. Laid out in
perfect order.
Faith precedes the miracle. My father told me sometimes
you have to make the decision and go with it and if it's wrong Heavenly Father
will let you know. It will quickly
become obvious. So I made my decision
and acted and here is my miracle.
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